A few steps to help you to stop being shy around good-looking girls!
1. Tell yourself that many girls are also shy around boys:
One way to prepare yourself for talking to girls is to remember that itâ€™s likely that the girls are just as scared about talking to you as you are about talking to them. They may look like they have it all figured out and may act like theyâ€™re not shy or nervous whatsoever, but on the inside, many girls are nervous about talking to boys, too. If youâ€™re more aware of the fact that every girl or guy is shy about talking to people to some extent, then youâ€™ll be less self-conscious about talking to girls.
2. Make eye contact.
The best way to see whoâ€™s interested in you and show a girl that youâ€™re interested in her, too, is to make eye contact and hold it for a couple of seconds. This is a big first step, and it will prepare both of you for speaking to each other.
3. Donâ€™t back down after making attempt:
A lot of guys often does this, doing this will only make you never want to try and gain and probably inform the girl that you are shy. And walking too fast will make you look overeager. She may be in a group of people, which is intimidating. However, if you want to speak with her, youâ€™ll have to brave the crowd and head over anyway.
4. Donâ€™t worry about saying the perfect thing:
Guys who are shy about talking to girls tend to romanticize the situation and think that, when they talk to a cute girl, they have to say something absolutely perfect or astonishing to win her over, and then the two of you can walk off into the sunset together. In reality, if you tell the girl you like her shirt or talk about the Drake concert you just went to, youâ€™ll be perfectly fine. Instead of searching for the perfect
turn of phrase, just work on saying something to keep the conversation going.
6. Come up with a few topics in advance so you feel less nervous:
Prepare a few questions that will help you to not only strike up a conversation but also keep one going. Start by asking her name and where sheâ€™s from. You can ask what she does for a living, where she went to school and when was the last time she traveled. If you continue talking, ask about her hobbies, siblings and favorite fun things to do on the weekend.
7. Just pretend that youâ€™re talking to one of your friends:
Sure, talking to the cute girl in your grade may seem completely different than chatting it
up with your best friend, but if you stop being so worried about everything being perfect, youâ€™ll see that itâ€™s really not so different. Youâ€™ll have to come up with things to talk about, making the other personal
laugh, talk about something interesting you did over the weekend, and so on. Once you relax and stop trying to sound so impressive, youâ€™ll be able to fall into a natural pace of conversation, just as you would with a close friend.
I believe with these few steps, you will always be bold and be able to walk up to a lady and speak with them.